SAYINGS
OF THE MESSENGER OF THE CREATOR 247 to 267
(SALLALLAHO-ALAIHE-WA-AALEHI-WASALLAM)
Preventing Quarrel Among a People And The Method To Do
That
247. Sayyidina
Abu Darda’ (Radi-ALLAHO-An-ho)
Shall I not tell you something better
than voluntary fasting, prayer and charity?
The Companions (Radi-ALLAHO-An-ho) said, “Do tell us!
“He said, Let mutual relationship be pleasant (that is, put an end to
quarrelling) because unpleasantness in mutual relationship is like a razor. I
do not mean that it shaves the hair but that it shaves (spoils) religion.” (Abu
Dawood, Jama’ al-Fawa’id)
248. Sayyidina
Anas (Radi-ALLAHO-An-ho)
He is not one of us who does not show
compassion to our young and respect to the old. (Tirmizi, Jama’ al-Fawa’id)
249. Sayyidina
Abu Hurayrah (Radi-ALLAHO-An-ho)
When a respectable man of a tribe comes
to you, you should also honour him. (Al-Bazzaar, Jama’ al-Fawa’id)
250. Sayyidina
Mu’awiyah(Radi-ALLAHO-An-ho)
Do make recommendations for a Muslim (a
lawful manner). You will get a reward for that. (Abu Dawood, Jama’ al-Fawa’id)
251. Sayyidina
Jabir(Radi-ALLAHO-An-ho)
Those of you who possess better
character will be dearer to me. On the day of Resurrection, they will be seated
nearer me (than other people will be).
And the most disliked by me on the day of Resurrection; more distant
from me will be those who speak unnecessarily, are big-mouthed and boastful. (Tirmizi,
Jama’ al-Fawa’id)
252. Sayyidina
Anas(Radi-ALLAHO-An-ho)
Refrain
from holding a bad opinion of people. (Tirmizi, Jama’ al-Fawa’id)
253. Sayyidina
Jabir(Radi-ALLAHO-An-ho)
The (proceedings of) assemblies are a
trust except three types of assemblies: Those convened to shed blood unlawfully
(or decide about it); to commit fornication, and to appropriate property
unjustly. (Abu Dawood, Jama’ al-Fawa’id)
254. Sayyidina
Abu Hurayrah(Radi-ALLAHO-An-ho)
It is enough for a man to be a liar
that he repeats everything he hears (without verifying its truth). (Muslim,
Nasa’i, Jama’ al-Fawa’id)
255. Sayyidina
Safyaan bin Asid(Radi-ALLAHO-An-ho)
It is a grave sin that you tell your
brother something so that he believes you although you are lying. (Abu Dawood, Jama’
al-Fawa’id)
256. Sayyidina
‘Abdullah bin Mas’ood(Radi-ALLAHO-An-ho)
(Something) the devil comes to people
in the form of a man and tells them something false. Then, when those people go
their ways, one of them confides (to some other people), “I have heard
something from a man whose face I recognize but whose name I do not remember
and he said such-and-such a thing.” In this way, the lie spreads as a rumour
and causes mischief. (Muslim, Jama’ al-Fawa’id)
257. Sayyidina
Abu Hurayrah(Radi-ALLAHO-An-ho)
He is not a strong man who knocks down
someone but he is a strong man who checks himself when he is angry. (Bukhari,
Muslim, Jama’ al-Fawa’id)
258. Sayyidina
Abu Waa’il(Radi-ALLAHO-An-ho)
Anger is from the devil and the devil
was created from the fire. The fire is extinguished with water. So, if one of
you gets angry he should perform ablution. (Abu Dawood, Jama’ al-Fawa’id)
259. Sayyidina
Abu Zarr(Radi-ALLAHO-An-ho)
If any one of you is overcome by anger
and he is standing, let him sit down. If by sitting down his anger subsides, it
is enough otherwise he should lie down. (Abu Dawood, Jama’ al-Fawa’id)
260. Sayyidina
Abu Hurayrah(Radi-ALLAHO-An-ho)
Do you know what backbiting is? The Companions
(Radi-ALLAHO-An-hum) submitted, “Allah
and His Messenger known best.”
The Prophet (Peace Be Upon Him) said,”Backbiting is that one of you make
mention of your brother in such a way that he would be displeased with it.
One of them asked, ”Even if that evil is found in my brother? “
The Prophet (Peace Be upon Him) said, “If that evil is found in him then
you are guilty of backbiting him but if that is not found in him then you are
guilty of slander.” (Abu Dawood, Tirmizi, Jama’ al-Fawa’id)
261. Sayyidina
Abu Hurayrah(Radi-ALLAHO-An-ho)
Keep away from jealousy because
jealousy eats away piety in the same way as fire devours wood. (Abu Dawood, Jama’
al-Fawa’id)
262. Sayyidina
Abu Ayyub(Radi-ALLAHO-An-ho)
It is not lawful for a Believer that he
severs relations with his brother for more than three days so that when the two
meet, each of them turns his face away from the other. The better of the two is
he who is the first to greet the other. (Bukhari, Muslim, Jama’ al-Fawa’id)
263. Sayyidina
Abu Hurayrah(Radi-ALLAHO-An-ho)
It is not lawful for a Believer that he
severs relations with another Believer for more than three days. At the end of
three days, each one of them must meet the other and present his salams
(greetings) and if the other responds then both will have their portion of
reward but if he does not respond then he will return with a sin.(Abu Dawood, Jama’ al-Fawa’id)
264. Sayyidina
Wathilah bin al-Asqa’(Radi-ALLAHO-An-ho)
Do not express pleasure at your
brother’s hardship. Let it not happen that Allah release him from that hardship
and involve you in it.(Tirmizi, Jama’
al-Fawa’id)
265. Sayyidina
Anas(Radi-ALLAHO-An-ho)
He who has given up disputing, while he
was false will have a palace built for him on the edges of Paradise .
He who gives up disputing while he was truthful will have a palace built for
him in the middle of Paradise . And he who
turns himself into a good character man will have a place built for him in the
highest places of Paradise . (Tirmizi, Jama’ al-Fawa’id)
266. Sayyid
‘Aishah(Radi-ALLAHO-An-ha)
The one most liable to the wrath of
Allah is he who is very quarrelsome. (Bukhari, Jama’ al-Fawa’id)
267. Sayyidah
‘Aishah(Radi-ALLAHO-An-ha)
Mildness will adorn everything it is
found in, but if removed from it, will make it defective.(Muslim, Abu Dawood, Jama’ al-Fawa’id)
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