How to divorce (a)

 

How to divorce (a) (L-3279)

Chapter “’AT-TALAAQ” – (Divorce) - 65

‘A-‘uu-zu  Billaahi minash-Shay-taanir- Rajiim.

 (I seek refuge in Allaah from Satan the outcast)
Bis-Millaahir-Rah-maanir-Rahiim.
(In the name of Allaah, the Beneficent, the Merciful)

يَٰٓأَيُّهَا ٱلنَّبِىُّ إِذَا طَلَّقْتُمُ ٱلنِّسَآءَ فَطَلِّقُوهُنَّ لِعِدَّتِهِنَّ وَأَحْصُوا۟ ٱلْعِدَّةَ وَٱتَّقُوا۟ ٱللَّهَ رَبَّكُمْ لَا تُخْرِجُوهُنَّ مِنۢ بُيُوتِهِنَّ وَلَا يَخْرُجْنَ إِلَّآ أَن يَأْتِينَ بِفَٰحِشَةٍ مُّبَيِّنَةٍ وَتِلْكَ حُدُودُ ٱللَّهِ وَمَن يَتَعَدَّ حُدُودَ ٱللَّهِ فَقَدْ ظَلَمَ نَفْسَهُۥ لَا تَدْرِى لَعَلَّ ٱللَّهَ يُحْدِثُ بَعْدَ ذَٰلِكَ أَمْرًا 1

1.  Yaaa-‘ayyuhan-Nabiyyu  ‘izaa  tallaq-tummun-nisaaa-'a  fa-talliquu-hunna  li-'iddati-hinna  wa  ‘ahsul-'iddah.  WattaqUllaaha  Rabbakum.  Laa tukhri-juuhunna  mim- bu-yuutihinna  wa  laa  yakhrujna  ‘illaaa  ‘any-ya'-tiina  bi-faahishatim-mu-bayyinah.  Wa  tilka  HuduudUllaah.  Wa  many- yata-'adda  HuduudAllaahi  faqad  zalama  nafsah.  Laa  tadrii  la-'allAllaaha  yuhdisu  ba'-da  zaalika  ‘amraa.

1. O Prophet! When you (men) put away women, put them away for their (legal) period and reckon the period, and keep your duty to Allah, your Lord. Expel them not from their houses nor let them go forth unless they commit open immorality. Such are the limits (imposed by) Allah; and whoso transgresses Allah's limits, he verily wrongs his soul. You know not: it may be that Allah will afterward bring some new thing to pass.

After permission of divorcing the woman according to Religious Law, the people began to put the women away thoughtlessly as and when they wished. It became reason that the women were hurt and sometimes the husband himself had to regret. Therefore in this Chapter, the same matter has been explained. It turned out that one should divorce his wife when he considers dire need and he feels that there is no other way of salvation.

It is commanded: When you divorce women, divorce them for the commencement of their waiting period and keep count of the waiting period. Although the divorce will immediately be commenced as and when you will divorce, but Allaah Almighty does not desire to put anyone of you in trouble. Therefore you must divorce during those days when you can meet your wife for sexual intercourse but you do not commit, so that their waiting period may be counted without increase or decrease of the days. Every work must be done; fearing Allaah Almighty. (Continued) 

https://youtu.be/QAdNfwnGbV0