Saturday, 6 June 2026

Lesson of tolerance

 

Lesson of tolerance (L-3276)

وَإِن تَعْفُوا۟ وَتَصْفَحُوا۟ وَتَغْفِرُوا۟ فَإِنَّ ٱللَّهَ غَفُورٌ رَّحِيمٌ 14b  إِنَّمَآ أَمْوَٰلُكُمْ وَأَوْلَٰدُكُمْ فِتْنَةٌ وَٱللَّهُ عِندَهُۥٓ أَجْرٌ عَظِيمٌ 15  فَٱتَّقُوا۟ ٱللَّهَ مَا ٱسْتَطَعْتُمْ وَٱسْمَعُوا۟ وَأَطِيعُوا۟ وَأَنفِقُوا۟ خَيْرًا لِّأَنفُسِكُمْ وَمَن يُوقَ شُحَّ نَفْسِهِۦ فَأُو۟لَٰٓئِكَ هُمُ ٱلْمُفْلِحُونَ 16  

14b.  Wa  ‘in ta'-fuu  wa  tasfa-huu  wa  tag-firuu  fa-‘innAllaaha  Gafuurur- Rahiim.

15.  ‘Innamaa  ‘amwaalukum  wa  ‘awlaadukum  fitnah.  Wallaahu  'indaHuuu  ‘Ajrun  'aziim.

16.  FattaqUllaaha  masta-ta'-tum  wasma-'uu  wa  atii-'uu  wa  ‘anfiquu  khay-ral-li-‘anfusi-kum.  Wa  many-yuuqa  shuh-ha  nafsihii  fa-‘ulaaa-'ika  humul-Muflihuun.

14b.  And if you efface and overlook and forgive, then lo! Allah is Forgiving, Merciful.

15. Your wealth and your children are only a temptation, whereas Allah! With Him is an immense reward.

16. So keep your duty to Allah as best you can, and listen, and obey, and spend; that is better for your souls. And whoso is saved from his own greed, such are the successful.

Some are such wives and children, due to whom the Man is harmed religiously or worldly. If it happens at any time, the man feels grief and is enraged on that wife or child; by whom he was harmed. Then he desires to punish such person severely.

At such occasion, it has been commanded in this verse:  If you use common sense and patience, pardon them, overlook and forgive their mistakes, its consequence will be better. It will be result of such generosity that Allaah Almighty will forgive your sins. He is Forgiving and Merciful. If the man gets any loss due to his wife or children, there is any error of himself too if he think. So being enraged on them only cannot be correct. Actual matter is it that your wealth and your children are but a trial. You must be careful when you behave with them. Abiding by the Commands of Allaah is cause of a reward and He has with Him a great reward. Therefore, you must fear Allaah as much as you are able, listen to Him and obey His Commandment. Sometime the man becomes stingy with the members of his family and is excited. He does not spend as he has to spend. Those who are not greedy but spend in the way of Allaah, it is better for themselves. Whoever is protected from the stinginess of his soul - it is those who will be the successful.

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